Rimas

You know it's too much when it is too much.



When we care about a person deeply, you'll never know that at times it can be quite disturbing for them. In fact, too disturbing that they feel claustrophobic with you presence or just hearing your voice or worst, they feel like throwing the phone away when they see your name on the screen. Rimas tau! rimas! rimas! rimas! RIMASSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS!!!!! TAU TAK???!!




Okay okay. Aku tau. Dah. kau tak payah jerit-jerit macam setan, pi ambil wuduk pastu solat. Kan bagus.




Now, macam mana kita nak tahu jika orang tu rimas dengan tahap ke-care-an kita? As simple as simple plan,


1. bila kita cakap depan-depan dengan dia, dia tak nak pandang kita pastu kelam-kabut cari pen konon-konon nak bajet busy padehal elok je tadi kita tengok dia goyang kaki tengok you-tube.Pastu gelak tak ikhlas..tak pun jawab ala kadar macam saja nak kasi kita sakit hati balik. Sebab dia dah sakit hati, rimas kita duk care sangat pasal dia, dia pon jawab la nak sentapkan kita balik. contoh:

orang care: kau okay? ada masalah tak hari nih?

orang rimas: hah? pandang siling kiri-kanan depan belakang..okay okay. eh, aku okay jeww (dalam hati, memang ada masalah pon. kau lah masalah aku. sila berambuss)



2. bila kita call, dia banyak diam. jawab pun hmm.. okay.. tak.. takdelah..oh..yeke..tak tau la..pastu hmm balik. yelah. supaya kau bosan. jadi takdelah kau nak tanya banyak benda, conversation akan dicutshortkan so dia boleh get rid of kau cepat-cepat. lagi teruk kalau kau call dia lambat angkat...saje kasi kau panas..or langsung tak angkat! haaa...ni memang nak kasi kau hangus terus hangit ni. hehehe




3. bila kau text, dia langung tak reply. HAHAHAHAHAHA. kesian. Tapi kalau aku, nangis kot.




4. bila dia bagitahu kau muka ke muka

Orang rimas: I rimas. Rimas tau? Rimas tau tak? RIMASSSSS sesangattt! You boleh tak tolong jangan care sangat dekat i? U sapeeeee haa? Sape??? U sapee???

Orang care: Aku bini kau la ngek!! *bedebush*


Okay kalau cakap macam ni dekat bini ke laki sendiri ke memang ada harapan nak kena tidur luar la kan malam tu. Tapi confirm menghiris hati seh.. Makan dalam. Mesti kasi nangis kaw-kaw punya la bila kena sembur macam ni. wuwuwuwuw sobs sobs sampai atiiiii B cakap ayang cenggitu... UWEKKSS!



So..kalau kita pun..secara logik akal yang dikurniakan Ilahi, pandai-pandai la nak pikir. Withdraw yourself from that situation or from that person. We must know the limit. Even patience has its limit. Not asking how the person is doing every single hour does not make you any less care about him/her. They just need to be alone.. to rest, to think..to reflect..to appreciate. Who knows they might come and find you later. Well, absence makes a heart grow fonder. But, if they've gone for too long erm...perhaps you can assume that they still need the time to find the missing pieces ke apa ke..or they just don't need you. Ouch. Too bad, reality hurts.